So in addition to the question they pose to you: Can you allow yourself to be vulnerable and be embraced?, let's also ask:
Have there been times when you have felt wrapped in God's love?
Have there been times when, perhaps after the fact rather than in the midst, you have felt God's love and guidance through some pretty tough times?
Have there been times when you've experienced the "tough love" God provides to help us learn something (i.e., the brick thrown when you're going too fast to pay attention)? What were you doing, and what did you learn?
Are there times when you feel unloveable, and therefore unable to feel the love of God surrounding you? What do you do to get out of that situation?